This week, I am into depression and I asked God what is the fundamental role of a husband and father? Is it to work 24 hrs for your job, pay the bills then your job/role is considered done?
I happened to read this blog (http://ahusband.blogspot.com) by chance on how the husband and his wife went through their journey together. This blog is not abt something that the wife is dying or some terminal diseases lah. But what impresses me was it is a very simple thing that the husband know how to appreciate the wife and no need to wait until one day the wife get some terminal illnesses or leaving him then start to treasure of the things he has in life.
Have extracted 3 threads that husband should read but of cos there are more than 3 that husband shd read
- http://ahusband.blogspot.com/2008/09/journey.html
- http://ahusband.blogspot.com/2008/08/harder.html
- http://ahusband.blogspot.com/2008_10_01_archive.html
Well, i can only say the wife is very fortunate to have this man who is a understanding and helpful husband who support and be with the wife throughout the journey. If only husbands including mine could spend some time study and understand how woman feels especially during our pregnancy days (doesn't matter if it is 1st or Xth pregnancy) and even on non-pregnancy days, the world will be a better place. Do u agree?
Useful links for the father :
http://www.fatheringmatters.com/dpl/links
11 years ago
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