Wednesday, January 16, 2008

16th Jan 2008 - Arrival of Princess Adelle

After 40 weeks of long waiting, our princess Adelle is born! Well we never expected that it is exactly 1 year & 1 month after our wedding. How interesting ya? ;-)

Okie here are my birth story :
As recommended by gynae, we decided to try out induce first to see if i can deliver naturally so was told to go to hospital @8am on 16th Jan.

08:30 - Admitted to MT A & change into the hospital attire and lie on the bed waiting...

09:30 - Dr Adrian came & was furious that the nurse did not start the CTG to monitor fetal heartbeat and nothing was done. Very quickly, the nurse went to get everything up and few minutes later Dr Adrian came back in and tell me that he will start to burst the waterbag. After several attempts, waterbag burst & it just keep flowing out non-stop until the bed was wet!!! I was also put on drip and started to monitor the CTG rate. He also checked the cervix & it was only 2cm dilated.

10:30 - I started to feel contractions coming in. It was ok & Dr Adrian did tell me that if i need epidural, do let the nurse know. Also he did tell me that he will return @3.30pm to check on my progress. If i don't dilate by 6-7cm, he will recommend me to proceed straight to c-section.
11:30 - Nurse came in & out at 30 minutes interval to check on me & change the protector sheet as it was really wet & some greenish color! She told me that she suspected that bb shit inside me?!?!?! Oh no... sign of danger.
13:30 - The pain is getting intense & i am getting a little irritated. Told the nurse if i can ask for epidural & one of them say No as it was instructed by gynae.
14:00 - Another nurse came in & i ask if i can have epidural & she say yes if i really want or she give other types of pain relief & whether i can stand the pain for now. So far still a little bearable. So she did a cervix check to see how much i was dilated & it is only 2.5cm..... SAD.... slow progress.... getting anxious.. i prayed real hard but sigh.....
14:30 - Another nurse came in & i told her i want epidural but she say gynae instructure no epidural as i might proceed to c-section due to the greenish water that i leak out earlier on. So bopian, she say why not wait for gynae to come & review on me. She also commented that my pain tolerance is very good cos i am having good & regular contractions.
15:30 - Dr Adrian came & did cervix check to confirm that i am only 3cm dilated.... Oh no... bad news.... super slow progress so Dr Adrian ask us for our decision on whether to continue to wait or proceed to c-section. Hubby felt that i have suffered enough so tell me to forgo the torture & go for c-section. I opt for c-section with epi than GA so that hubby can witness the birth of Adelle.
16:00 - I signed on the paper that i will go for c-section... SAD.. but what to do.. my baby so big & i got small pelvic bone so baby can't go down the birth canal.
16:15 - I was pushed into the operation theatre & was given epidural via my back. It was painful & i started shivering. I was on the bed & can see via the operation theatre lights that Dr Adrian holding the knife getting ready to cut me. The only thing on my mind at that moment was "where is my husband?"
16:17 - Hubby came in & i ask if he brought camera in. :-p Then, hubby saw Dr Adrian trying to get baby Adelle out and due to her size, Dr Adrian cut longer length and using a clipper to pull her out. Another assistant doctor was also helping to push baby out and commented that she is a big baby. Sigh..... What a big baby that i have!

16:41 - Baby crying sound was heard! It is our baby Adelle! Finally she is born after several hours of pain & agony. Tears of joy dropped down from my eyes and it was a mix feeling for me. Sad that i was being "CUT" but happy that she is born healthy & chubby! She was cleaned up by the midwife and i get to see her for the first time. We took a family photo though my hair was in a mess cause of the earlier struggle during the contraction.
17:00 - Hubby was told to follow the nurse to do the weight(3.745kg) & length(57cm) while i was being stitch up. After the operation, i was pushed to a common area & they monitor my blood pressure. The nurse commented that i have high blood pressure. After monitoring for 30 minutes, they pushed me back to the ward - 359B.
17:30 - Back at ward, i was still shivering and the nurse say my temperature is slightly high and blood pressure is still high so need to monitor closely. Shortly after, my hubby, mum & sis came to see me @ my ward.

19:00 - Baby Adelle is pushed to my ward & everyone get to cuddle her for the first time. As i was still on drip, i can't carry her and hubby put her next to my bed for a photo shoot.

During our 4D3N stay @ MT A, many friends & relatives came to visit us. Also we received many gifts, hampers, bird nest & chicken essence. We would to thank Serena, Florann, Jamie, Anne, Airrence colleagues, Suping & Jack, Lifang & Ryan, Meiying & Renhui, Jessica & Derrick, Monica, Eileen & Darren, Esther & Royy, Michelle & JinJun, Clara, Vozza & Trixie, Bingfu, Chris & Debbie colleagues for the gifts & visiting us!

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Wednesday, January 09, 2008

False Alarm

Last sat(6th Jan), i felt stomach cramps from 5.45am to 8+am. Hubby woke up at 8+ & i told him that i m feeling pain so we are wondering could it be contractions? :-p Both of us are kinda excited and we decided to have breakfast first b4 calling my gynae to check if i need to go to MT A for delivery. So hubby went to the nearby hawker centre to buy carrot cake for me. While he was out, I was laying on the sofa & suddenly i doze off...... and by the time he was back, my pain suddenly disappear!! So we know it was a false alarm & we proceed to the weekly checkup @ gynae clinic at 1.30pm.

At the clinic, we told gynae what happen this morning & he did a check on bb adelle. She is fine inside so gynae ask if i want to induce her out. I was puzzle at a sec as i dont know what he mean by induce... i tot induce = cesarean? No loh... gynae say induce can be natural too but provided my cervix is open & ready for the induce. So he did a check & told me not ready so bopian, we have to go home & wait again... BB adelle is estimated at 3.35kg during this checkup & gynae didn't give any more pic liao cos probably he felt almost time for us to see our real bb so no need photo....

Anyway, we are looking fwd to see bb adelle within the nxt few days. We hope bb adelle will be born on 8th Jan cos 08-01-08 nice number rite? But well, she doesn't like the date so we are back to the waiting game & just have to trust God in His perfect timing bah.... There is nothing that we can do but only to be patient. Also i have to continue to manage the on-&-off pain for how long leh?!?! sigh....dunno.... bb darling, when is the day that you will come out to see this beautiful world that God has created? :-)

False Alarm - Part II
On sunday (13th Jan), i experience pain from 4am till 9am. It started at 20mins interval and gradually become 8 to 10mins interval. So I was thinking this time should be real bah? However, it ended up a false alarm again!! When hubby woke up at 8+, he told me to wake him up if i want to go hospital & then dunno why, the pain gradually went away & then stop at 9am... Haiz....

The day b4 the 2nd false alarm, we went for checkup & gynae told us that cervix not open so cannot induce & last date will be this wed(16th jan). The est weight for bb adelle is 3.55kg. We are also told to go back for checkup on mon(14th Jan) which is her due date & gynae told us that bb adelle is engaged already & cervix finally open.. Happy! But only dilated 1 cm so better go home & wait for nature to take it courses...Sianz.. Now it become a waiting game for adelle to decide if she want to come out on her own will... We also discussed with gynae on what are the contingency plans & this is what he shared with us. By wed if nothing happen, we can try to induce adelle out via natural delivery. However, he told us that the success rate is 1 or 2 out of the 10 mums who have a big bb like me(adelle is est 3.7kg). If i fail to induce adelle out then have to proceed with cesarean & also means extra cost for us cos gotta pay natural delivery + cesarean + epidural fees!! So he leave the decision to us after analysising the situation with us...

Well, what can we say now? Really at a lost so i went to Life Bookshop to see if i can get some insights. I saw this book call Superrnatural Childbirth & i flip to the page on Delivery since it is more applicable for me at this stage. I read that we have to seek God's wisdom to know what's the safest method for bb to be born. Also there is a page on prayers for delivery! Wow didn't know there are so many things that can pray for delivery esp cooperation from baby, cervix, uterus, etc etc... After praying using the book, i felt much peace & assurance & faith increases! Now have to pray for wisdom to make the right decision but i know the best is cooperation from bb adelle to come out on her own then i can deliver her naturally!
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